Natisha Cumba
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Encouraging someone to cry?
My partners mother died two days ago and she hasn't cried about it yet. She is upset obviously, and she is lethargic and down but she didn't cry at the funeral and she hasn't really expressed any strong feeling yet. Its like she has become an emotionless robot. She is lovely, but she is the type of person who hides how she truly feels and represses anger or sadness. I give her hugs and kisses and have talked about it with her, but she still acts emotionless and seems incapable of expressing her sadness. I really want to help her and make her happy again. How can I do this?
RAMADAN: Is obedience of Rasoolallah (saww) ISLAM?
Islam is all about Mo. Without him, it never would have existed. Notice when Muslims say "the prophet" they all know it's Muhammad who is being talked about. That is because they don't worship or follow any prophet of God, just Mo.
I think I have a mental disorder. How can I tell my mum?
You have so many good things ahead for you. Talk to mom and revisit the therapist, you have to tell them everything if you want their help. The boyfriend you had was a jerk and you probably dated him for the wrong reasons. Stay off facebook until your in a better state of mind. you need to forgive yourself and start loving yourself.
Introducing my dog to my kitten? helphelphelp?
I just recently got a lovely little maine coon kitten. a very sweet little thing. i also have a very large, very rowdy 1 year old catahoula leopard hound crossed with chocolate lab. hes a very good dog, very friendly. but hes such a klutzy oaf, and gets very rough when he plays with other dogs, i always tell him to settle down when he gets too rough. but anyway, i introduced them and as i expected he immediately wanted to play with it. i asked him to lay down and placed the kitten down beside him. at first he sort of snuffled him and seemed very interested, wagging his tail and all. as the kitten walked around, he followed him. keeping a very close eye on him, his eyes were locked on him and everytime the kitten made a move to go run somewhere he would jump forward as if to chase him but i would snap at him and he would stop and continue to follow him around and just stare him down. im so worried that hes gonna just go for him when im not looking. i would never trust him with him but like if he got out and i didnt know im not sure if he would do anything. what do i do ??
Gods Law, and Jesus'?
Some people say that God wants us to continue keeping the law; keep the sabbath. But Apostle Paul says that circumcision (Law) and uncircumcision is nothing, it is Gods grace and not our obedience to the law that will give us eternal life with the Father. So which is it people, Law or Grace. I believe Jesus says it is more important to do good on every day instead of obeying the law.
Mother-in-Law treats my child different?
Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half, we've been living together for about six months now. He has a almost 3 year old from a previous relationship and I have a 20 month old son also from a previous relationship. He and I have been together since my son was 5 months, so my boyfriend is "daddy." His mother is the sweetest woman, she has always been good to my son and I but when it comes to the boys it is obvious she favors her grandson. I completely understand her, she's helped raise the boy and there is no way she will ever feel that love for a child who is not biologically her grandchild and thats fine. However, I do feel that at least when she is around both the boys at the same time she should treat them equally. My family, mostly my mother is the same. My does she absolutely love my son, and she spoils him rotten, but when we've gone over and we have both of the boys she will not favor my son. If my son asks for a popsicle, she will bring one for the other boy too, if my son snatched a toy from my stepson my mother will snatch it and give it back, on christmas she did my more gifts for my son, but she kept them at her house and allowed him to open them when he was there alone. She bought both the boys a gift of equal value for them to take home. On Easter, she made all of her grandchildren baskets including my stepson. She asked me what he needs for his bday because she'd like to buy him a gift. My son wants to play outside, she invites the stepson. She does these things because he is part of the family now. Now my mother in law, will buy things for her grandson and give it to him right infront of my child, my son stares and reaches his little hand to have his stepbrother pull back and say "no! mine!" She takes him for walks, never invites my little boy. She does these things all of the time. It bothers me because she could at least include my son when he's around, the boys are not always together but she always excludes him. What should i do?
My friend is getting majorly bullied!?
My best friend has a 13 year old stepbrother. Her parents are divorced, she is with the dad, and the dad's girlfriend and son (the stepbrother) have been all living together for 10 years. The brother always causes trouble and repeatedly abuses his 11 year old stepsister, and get this! the sister is the one who always gets punished! She tries to tell her parents about her brother, but they just don't listen or pay attention! Like yesterday, she got kicked twice and has two bruises on her shin and knee and she is the one who gets grounded!!! What should I help her do or what should she do? She's been trying to tell someone for years and they don't listen!!!!!!! Her mom is the only one who listens and she lives far away!
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