Which dog breeds are more likely to get along with cats?

What's cool about your question is that you can find it at a shelter. Ya know, throw out the word breed and it will be easier to answer your question. If you don't want a dog that sheds a lot long haired dogs can be eliminated. Small to medium, that's a lot of dogs. Here's what I would do. I'd go to the shelter and find a dog you both think would be suitable. I'm guessing you will pick out a puppy who doesn't have any bad habits already. If it's grown and has chased cats in the past it may be impossible to break that habit. I had a dog who was fine in the house with my cat, but when the cat ran outside in the back yard he would chase her. He was never let outside before I checked on her first after that. I like cats and dogs. That's two living things that will give me the attention I deserve...lol. When I got my cat I would get one that was also young. Hopefully, they can interact enough when young to get along. Breeds like Labrador's are usually good with other animals. They have that laid back easy going disposition. A little on the large side but probably what you would both like. Of course, every dog, like a person, has their own attitude about life. I think your best chance is for you and your husband is to get up Saturday morning and go look at two or three shelters. If after a few cups of coffee you aren't overwhelmed by any of them give it a few weeks and try again. You as the cat person should be the most impressed, because generally, the dog chases the cat. I'm sure that some of the dog breeds have a strong motherly instinct that would protect and love a cat in the family. Exactly the breed I'm not sure. I'm assuming the dog is going to be an inside pet. I've had dogs my entire life and yet to have any real problems with whining or howling. I don't know about your friends dogs but I wouldn't be too concerned about that problem. I can't wait to retire so I can have a small farm with dogs and cats being a part of my family.